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HIV+ Gay Porn Star, Caleb Carter

The True Story of HIV Positive Porn Star, Caleb Carter & Death

A few weeks ago I posted that gay male porn star Caleb Carter committed suicide by hanging himself, and that I’d follow up with a more detailed story in a week or so. The reason I wanted to wait for the Coroner’s Investigative report was due to the fact that Caleb Carter, whose real name was Benjamin Gilbert was HIV positive. I had actually known Benjamin Gilbert was HIV positive becuase we have mutual friends, and due to my contact with members of the adult entertainment industry, I knew but un-officially. About a week before his suicide, Benjamin Gilbert (a.k.a. Caleb Carter) had tried to invite me over for sex via the gay male personals website Adam4Adam. My profile there says I am “HIV Negative”. I declined his invitation, harshly as I was disgusted with what he was doing. Was he trying to endanger others who were not HIV positive? He was also knowingly performing in gay porn films while HIV positive.

I found at least one gay porn film, produced by popular bareback porn studio, Hot Desert Knights which Ben Gilbert stared in entitled, “Buckets of Cum” in which you see Caleb Carter having unprotected sex with an African American male performer. The description of this film, by Hot Desert Knights itself states, “WARNING: Contains all raw bareback action, loads in the ass and cum swallowing.”

My personal opinion is that he did not think (or maybe even care) about the safety of myself, his co-stars, or others of which he had sexual encounters with.

I couldn’t post about his medical status until I had received an official report from the County of San Diego confirming he had HIV. Ben and I live in Southern California and as we all know the gay community is quite small when it comes to gossip. I was warned about Ben having HIV and was warned never to hookup with him, for that I am gracious, not that he was my type anyways. The best way I can describe Benjamin Gilbert from my interactions with him is: Vindictive. You’ll notice other bloggers saying how nice he was and how much he will be missed: That’s common when somebody dies.

I’m writing this article to expose the heart wrenching truth about Mr. Gilbert: He was HIV positive and if you had a sexual encounter with him, you could be too. The Coroner Investigator stated that Benjamin was a male escort. How many people did he infect with HIV?

For those who know me in real life I can he a bitch, a gossip, a whatever but what I don’t do is try to hurt others feelings, make them feel bad about themselves, etc. The reason I decided to go ahead and post that Benjamin Gilbert was living with and possibly transmitted to others, HIV is so everybody that had had a sexual encounter with him will hopefully get tested and stop the vicious cycle of infection.

Benjamin GIlbert’s own step-father, Chuck, described him as: “health conscious, a train-wreck, attention getter, habitual liar, and confused.”. The Coroner Investigative summery also states that Benjamin was “known to partake of illicit drugs recreationally. His drugs of choice were cocaine, marijuana, and ecstasy.” His alcohol of choice was Vodka which the Coroner found a LARGE amount of consumed containers of various sizes around his small, shabby apartment.

Benjamin lived (presumably) by himself, in a one bedroom one bathroom, first-floor apartment. His only roommate seemed to be his empty vodka bottles. The San Diego Coroner puts it nicely, ‘The home was sparsely furnished and untidy.”

San Diego Police Dispatch received the call on 02/20/09, at 1621 hours. Police officers were dispatched to 1233 Essex Street, apartment #3, in the Hillcrest area of San Diego. They arrived at 1624 hours. Upon arrival, officers knocked on the door, but did not get an answer. The apartment manager assisted officers by using her master key to gain entry into the residence.

Benjamin was found in his bedroom closet hanging in an upright kneeling position, from the clothing rod by a J. Crew burgundy scarf. Clothes, shoes, condoms, and debris littered the floor. By time he was found he was in the late stages of rigor mortis which was noted to his extremities, which was overcome by “minimal” force. It’s not unusual for Coroner Technicians to have to break the bones of bodies so that they are in a proper “body bag” position.  A plastic dildo and condom wrappers on the floor of the closet, but no porn was found in his bedroom. I find that rather unusual for a porn star. To me, it suggests he rarely had visitors, or friends come over. Ben never left a suicide note but left his laptop running, which went into sleep mode by time the Coroner arrived, they noted he as logged into his email account but when they tried to access the “Sent” folder, the account had logged out automatically due to the inactivity time.

Benjamin not only had HIV, but a slew of other health problems as well, including the possibility of cancer: He was prescribed Paxil, Paroxetine, and Atripla. As of two weeks ago, he had been off his prescription medications, as he was undergoing testing for cancer.

It’s my opinion that with the stress of not having a stable career at the age of 28, being a porn star (the only job he could probably keep), living with HIV and other health problems, using illigal recrational “hard” drugs such as: Cocaine,  drinking massive amounts of alcohol, knowing he might have infected others with HIV, and living a sad existence even without a cat, in a one bedroom apartment really pushed him over edge. I think anybody in his vulnerable position would attempt suicide. The Coroner also states in the investigative report, that he was deeply in debt.

I want to stress this isn’t a story ment to hurt, defame, or make Benjamin Gilbert out to be a villain, but I know he did at least try to entice me into a sexual encounter at least once I have to ask: How many others? As I stated above, this is an article to educate, inform and warn the gay community of his HIV status, and it’s not something I wanted to post but felt the need to, since he is no longer here to suffer the effects if I had broken this story while he was still alive.

My heart goes out to his mother, Kim, as you know any good mother always stands by her children no matter what. In my opinion and observation she was at least an active commenter on his Myspace.com profile, and not even my mother uses myspace. She seemed to really have cared for her son, for which I wished everybody could have a mother like her. In my opinion, she is a “cool mom”. (Cool mom is a term from the movie Mean Girls and signifies the parent is “in-style” with her children.)

I highly suggest that if you, or know of a friend that had any encounter with Benjamin’s body fluids (blood, semen, etc) or a sexual encounter with him you get tested for HIV. – STAT!

I researched and found a list of HIV testing centers in the San Diego region: Click here for more of that information.

Adam4Adam Profile of HIV+ Porn Star Caleb Carter

San Diego Sheriff- Coroner’s Investigative Report

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Harlow Cuadra’s Sentence:

1. Life w/o Parole for first-degree murder
2. Life w/o Parole for criminal conspiracy engaging
3. 20 Years for the rest
4. 1 Year probation.

[Video from the Harlow and Joe Trial Blog]

After more than five hours of deliberations, the jury came back to the Luzerne County courthouse to sentence Harlow Cuadra to life in prison:

Harlow Cuadra will serve life in prison, after the jury of eight men and four women could not reach a unanimous decision whether prosecution presented any aggravating factors worthy of elevating his sentence to the death penalty.

The same jury that convicted Cuadra Thursday of first-degree homicide for Bryan Kocis’ January 2007 murder at his Dallas Township home deliberated for about five and a half hours before telling county Judge Peter Paul Olszewski Jr. they could not reach a unanimous verdict, despite being given more time.

Courtesy  of The Sword:

“After three and a half hours of deliberations, a jury of eight men and four women found Harlow Cuadra guilty of 1st degree murder for the 2007 stabbing death of porn producer Bryan Kocis.

In addition to 1st degree murder, Harlow Cuadra was found guilty on each of the 11 other charges, including theft, robbery, arson and abuse of a corpse. Because it’s a capital murder case, the jury will now decide whether to sentence Cuadra to life in prison or death.

Dressed in a pink dress shirt and grey suit, Harlow stared forward as the verdict was read. Bryan Kocis’ family hugged. The trial lasted 12 days and 90 witnesses testified.

The judge spent an hour and a half this morning reading the full list of criminal charges against Harlow, as well as the descriptions of each crime. The judge said afterwards that “these are the longest instructions I’ve ever heard given to a jury.”

After the jurors convened to reach a verdict, they twice returned to the courtroom to ask the judge whether they could convict Harlow Cuadra of 1st degree murder even if they weren’t sure whether he was the one to slit Kocis’ throat. The judge told them that yes, even as an accomplice the murder charge would still stand. The extent to which jurors believe Harlow was an accomplice or the main actor in the murder will largely determine whether or not he receives the death penalty.”

I don’t think this will last forever but: I check every few days to see who is — currently — the “top” “Gay Porn Blog” on Google, and it’s always GayPornBlog.com. Not that their site is very good — it looks kind of old — as it is. It’s run on the outdated blogging platform TypePad which was popular in 2003. The reason they were always #1 was becuase they had the domain name, GayPornBlog.com so naturally Google displays them first. Well after a year of religious updates, then a year break then a year of religious updates again becuase-I-hate-my-day-job, We’ve turned Boys for Breakfast into the hottest gay porn blog around. Not only becuase we have hot guys, and the hottest gay porn sites but becuase were on the leading edge of blogging technology, have great visitors, but becuase we have EXCLUSIVE promotional videos from lots and lots of different gay porn paysites. Around Thanksgiving 2008, Boys for Breakfast Blog became so large and demanded so much attention I had to go from working full time to 1 day a week at my day job. Blogging is now my full time career and I think I’ve gotten pretty good. I think a large part of my success is becuase I have custom made promotional videos we stream mostly from our own servers, not some free site that suddenly decides to delete all adult content (as ning.com). Yes, streaming thousands and thousands of 30+ high quality flash videos does consume a lot of bandwidth, but I’m not a cheapskate here. Because you visit Boys for Breakfast Blog, and buy your porn subscriptions though me, I earn a hefty commission per signup. That pays for the hosting of this blog, as well as free hosting for other bloggers, video streaming, and my lifestyle expenses. I am 24 years old and I’ve been on my own since age 18 and I’ve had some really crappy jobs that pay above minimum wage, and I have always barely gotten by. Because I decided to get back into gay porn blogging, my entire life has changed! I’m making more money per DAY then I used to in an entire 40 hour WEEK! I’ve been saving up becuase I’m buying high end photography and video equipment. I want to go from professional blogger to actually producing my own porn site! I can’t talk to much about it until it launches becuase since I’m bank rolling it all myself, it’s a slow but steady process, but I promise you this, it’s unlike any other gay niche out there!
If you guys want to request anything you can always twitter or email me: brad@boysforbreakfast.com. Before you signup to any new porn sites, check Boys for Breakfast, and ask for a review. If you do that I’ll get access to the website you want reviewed and show you what’s inside: a preview. That way you can see what your getting before you buy, and I get a commission.

I want to thank you, you guys are great!

- Brad Breakfast

WILKES-BARRES, Pa. — The capital murder trial of Harlow Cuadra was scheduled to open its third week today. Dozens of prosecution witnesses have already delivered their testimony. Additionally, defense attorneys have raised the possibility that Joseph Kerekes, Cuadra’s partner and onetime co-defendant, could be called to the stand.

Kerekes abruptly pleaded guilty to second-degree murder in early December 2008. He was sentenced to the mandatory life in prison without parole. The plea spared Kerekes, 34, from facing the death penalty.

[Read more via xBiz]

Hey Guys I just wanted to share some new photos that were taken of me. I’d like to go out and take some more.. if you would like to help support me please signup for a trial membership at Broke Straight Boys or Next Door Studios Pass. What’s cool about these 2 sites is Broke Straight Boys is only a BUCK for 3 days access and Next Door Pass allows you access to all their websites (Cody Cummings, Visconti Triplets, Next Door Male, and their straight sites) for only $2.95 for 3 days!!!! The money I earn from this blog buys me photo equipment, pays my rent, feeds me and is now my full time job! So I made it to professional blogger status haha.. took long enough! I already have bought a Canon Rebel XSi still digital camera, a Canon HV30 High Definition camcorder, wide angle lens for both, external mic, etc… I’m gearing up buying high end photography equipment, working everyday to get my new paysite shot, edited, and uploaded. I’ll be talking about it more in the near future so keep checking back.. and thanks for reading my blog! Maybe you’ll see me around Southern California or West Hollywood! I sometimes go to RAGE Nightclub with friends.

- Brad

WE ARE WORKING ON AN IN-DEPTH INVESTIGATIVE REPORT ABOUT STATUS OF HIS HEALTH WHEN HE DIED.

Boy’s for Breakfast has been provisioned & replicated to 32 servers around the world today. Every time you visit, you are connecting to a server on your continent, without having to connect to our Dallas, Texas hosting facility in the United States every time.

This works with Geo-location: We find out where you are connecting from and route you to the closest server to your proximity.

This update will significantly increase our page load times and bandwidth availability for all users.

For more information please read the Wikipedia article on Content Distribution Networks.

I am writing a quick note to tell ya’ll I’ve signed up with BestMaleBlogs, a blog ranking service. So I’m asking everybody who enjoyed this site to come back to this post and click the button and then vote 5 Stars for Boy’s for Breakfast at BestMaleBlogs.

Hey Guys, Brad here. I have been up pulling around 24 hours with no sleep in order to get this site online.
I changed my Gay Porn Rapidshare blog into a “Gay Test Tube”.

This is the first tube site I have setup so I got a cheap-o script to test it out and it works pretty good.

If you guys want you can upload Amateur & non-pirated Gay XXX content to help me test it out, go right ahead. I put the quality settings on high, however the video doesn’t always line up so I have to make some tweaks, but I need to get some sleep first.

Click the logo to visit the newest tube site. I still have to create a custom template for it.  I’ll put that on my to-do list.

The last week I’ve been working really hard writing posts, editing paysite preview videos (below), and trying to get new quality XXX related sites online such as GayPornRapidshare.com, ProSexBlogger.com, and ProSexBlogger Free XXX Image Hosting All of them are free to use. I’m doing this so *maybe* gulp some of you guys will use my sites, and take me up on my $1 paysite trial offers, I’m 23 years old and I really want to go back to school full time without having to work for a blood-sucking national corporation.

And the adult intertainment industry is my golden ticket!

XoXoXoXo….

Thanks,

Brad Breakfast

It’s only temporary. Well you guys need somthing to look at so I made a sacrifice and took some photos. These are of *ME* taken today @ 1:30 PST, in my usual blogger uniform:

– Brad Breakfast

A few months ago I started blogging about making a profit off your adult blog on ProSexBlogger.com … I have now installed adult webmaster discussion boards so the adult blog community can better collaborate.

Visit ProSexBlogger.com and click “Webmaster Boards”,

Do to the fact a lot of blogs have been deleted, their author’s quit or locked their blogs into private mode I’ve decided to start a blog how to teach someone who thinks they would never have a website like this, YOU CAN. Right now it only has 3 articles on it but I’m going to be adding more atleast a few times a week so keep checking back and you can be on your way to Porn Blogging and making $$$.

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